Meet Danny

Are you ready to step up and give Danny the chance he desperately needs?

Age

13 years old

Favourite footy team

Essendon

Favourite food

Spaghetti bolognese and Chicken nuggets

Favourite activity

Playing with friends, riding my bike

We’re urgently looking for a long-term foster carer for 13-year-old Danny*, who wants to find his forever family.

About Danny

Danny is a bright, caring young boy who enjoys being in nature and going for walks. He loves to learn and is particularly interested in animals, especially dinosaurs, dogs, cats, and fish. He also enjoys fishing, rollerblading and working with clay and paint.

Danny is witty and energetic, always ready with a humorous remark or an excellent one-liner. Once he establishes a trusting relationship, he is very affectionate, greeting friends and special people with huge, warm hugs. When he feels safe, one of his favourite things to do is cuddle up on the couch and watch TV.

“I need a foster family who will love me for who I am and can commit to looking after me.”

Danny’s Background

Danny dislikes surprises or changes to his routine unless they are positive surprises. Danny has experienced emotional neglect and physical abuse, as well as family violence, from a young age. After living with multiple foster caregivers, he is currently residing in a therapeutic residential care unit. There, he lives with up to three other traumatised kids and often feels unsafe. In this care environment, Danny has been exposed to the mental health episodes of other young people, which have been frightening for him.

Danny has been diagnosed with Reactive Attachment Disorder and ADHD and takes medication for this. He sometimes displays other tricky behaviours when he is dysregulated because of the trauma he experienced as a young child.

No information about Danny’s father, including his name, is available. Danny has often wondered who his biological father is and why he “didn’t care enough to stick around.” Danny loves creative play and tells his school friends, “My father is a police officer in another town.” Danny’s mother has frequently been absent from his life and struggles to commit to regular and meaningful contact. This has only reinforced Danny’s feelings of abandonment and rejection. Danny wishes he could find a foster carer who would love and care for him and give him a sense of belonging.

Danny’s Daily Routine

Danny thrives on structure, routine, and predictability. When he is in a good headspace and provided with safe and nurturing care arrangements, Danny’s daily routine begins at 7am each morning, he follows a routine that includes taking his medication, bathing, getting dressed, making his bed, and eating breakfast. Afterwards, Danny takes time to unwind by playing with Legos or listening to music before heading off to school.

In recent months, Danny’s experiences at the residential placement have become turbulent due to exposure to the challenging behaviours of other young people. These situations have re-traumatised him, drawing on his own childhood experiences and causing him to feel dysregulated and heightened.

As a result, his daily routine has been negatively impacted. To cope, Danny has turned to his technology, often spending time in his room to dissociate from the conflict and chaos surrounding him. This has led to an increase in his use of technology and gaming devices throughout the night, particularly during the school holiday period.

Danny recently started attending a new high school, where he goes from Monday to Friday, 9am – 2pm. He has been feeling nervous about the transition but has a supportive care team to help him adjust smoothly. His primary school described him as a “leader” and a “great role model.”

Danny attends PawPals, an animal-assisted program, once a week at school, and he enjoys it. He loves spending time with the therapy dogs, and his kindness towards animals is one of his best qualities. Danny particularly enjoys cuddling the dogs and taking them for walks.

After school, Danny plays indoors and outdoors, including games, bike rides, fishing, playing at the park, baking, and watching movies. 

At night-time, especially when Danny’s living arrangements are calm and settled, his routine typically includes having dinner, bathing, taking his medication, and listening to music or podcasts on Spotify. Danny has also been provided with noise-cancelling headphones to help reduce exposure to the disturbances he has experienced.

Once a week, he meets with a therapist to address his trauma and life experiences. Danny often questions why he is in care and tends to blame himself. However, he is reminded that none of this is his fault.

He sees his mum once a fortnight and visits his grandmother once a month. He also has two sisters, whom he loves, and sees them once a month.

Danny is a teenage boy happy to be here

Who are we looking for?

After a turbulent start to his life, Danny wants nothing more than to find a loving forever home. We’re looking for an active carer who enjoys being out and about. Having other biological kids in the house is not an issue. Danny thrives from carers who are kind and affectionate. You would support him with a stable routine and structure and give him clear boundaries.

What support can we offer?

Every carer’s needs are different, but some examples of support that could be considered are:

  • Carer allowance of $44,000 tax-free per year.
  • Carer Support worker
  • 24/7 On-call support
  • Babysitting and Respite care (during school holidays or when needed)
  • Parenting support
  • Ongoing carer training and development
  • Therapeutic specialists for Danny
  • School holiday programs
  • After-school care program

What does the process look like?

You will follow the following steps to become an accredited carer:

  • Attend an information session
  • Virtual Meet & Greet
  • Foster care training
  • Paperwork (Police check, Working with Children check, Life story, medical check)
  • 4-6 Assessment meetings in your home
  • Accreditation panel

The Next Steps

Once you are an accredited carer, you can spend time with Danny, meet him, and see if it is a good fit. We will then start the transition process by letting him stay at your place for a few weekends. If all goes well, he will come and live with you permanently.

*names have been changed to protect identities.

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