The following story was written by Jennie Cornish who commenced working at OzChild in 2001. Along with other OzChild employees, she is committed to the cause of making life better for children. Each November she enjoys bringing together former residents of the Melbourne Orphanage, Brighton at the Melbourne Orphanage reunion provided by OzChild.
Those attending don't demand much - just a venue near the original orphanage site, lots of tea and coffee and a light lunch. They really appreciate the opportunity to reunite with their orphanage "brothers and sisters" and look forward to this annual event. There are many "regulars" and newcomers are keenly welcomed. Many are eager to hear stories to find out about the period they lived at the Orphanage and they are keen to see if behind that older face there is a child they knew who shared experiences and relationships. Family members are also welcomed. Attending the reunion and seeing the interaction helps them understand their relative's childhood. "Priceless" might help describe the important part this reunion plays in the lives of some who experienced living together in care, because, for various reasons, they were unable to live with their parents.
Life long memories are shared in every corner of the room as people recall stories from their childhood, exchange current information special to their lives and perhaps discuss future plans for travel or projects which lie ahead.
This event sponsored by OzChild provides an opportunity for the "Cottage Mothers" and the children who were in care (now grown up of course), some with their own families, to meet in a relaxed and friendly atmosphere. This is the sixth time I have been personally involved with their reunion and the significance of the occasion for those able to attend can not be under-estimated. One regular comes all the way from Queensland each year to maintain these friendships. Another lady who rang to accept her invitation told me "you've made my day," and there are many other examples of the appreciation and joy that the opportunity creates.
The historical connection with OzChild flows from its role as the organisation which emerged from the amalgamation of three previous and long established child welfare agencies.
Precious old photos shared at the reunion provide some insight into orphanage life. Bath time stories (with eight in a bath!), prayers before bed, milking a goat - all these photos bring back memories and all act as an enduring reminder of the importance of the work provided by OzChild in caring for the most vulnerable.
In a busy day weighed down with the pressure of schedules, deadlines and finances, it is good to focus on this and acknowledge that whatever our role at OzChild, we are working to make a positive contribution to the lives of children and to those who need support in performing their role as carers.
The work is important and the smiles which provide a testimonial to that care are priceless.
Jennie Cornish